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First Contact

 

When you have your selected candidates, now it is how you are going to make your first contact. It becomes crucial as this will determine your chances to proceed to the next level. Give a little attention on your words and your speaking style. But do not overdo it. The rule of thumb is just be yourself. Do not send a too short message that is too common and lost it originality. Ensure the note is a voice that come from deep within your heart. Include your true intention in your message such as "I am serious in looking for a life partner....". This will give the person your clear and true intention.

  

If you are not too confident in voicing your intention, email and sms will be better choice. However sms and phone calls will be more personalized and straight to the  person. This can give you an indication if the person really exist and can provide a quick response. This part should not take too long. Treat this as a trigger in the possible relationship. There is not much that you can get about the person through text messaging or voice conversation.

A meeting should take place soon after. Remember our objective! Time and location will be factors in considering the meeting event. If the person stays nearby, then it shouldn't be much problem. For a long distance contact, a proper arrangement should be made. Take in mind that distance should not be the barrier or discouragement in finding your mate.

I will not give and advise here on how to date. There are many books and websites that you can get advice from. The general rule is just be yourself. Be honest about yourself and your feeling. Dress casually as you would generally wear everyday but make it look neat and tidy. If you are a person who doesn't like to wear perfume, please use it! You are going to get close to a stranger and your scent can either put them off or create a pleasant feeling.

 

 

 
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