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Looking for a life partner is a journey, not
a destination. It's not like fast food where
you are limited to choices in the menu. Take
it like a buffet where you can choose what
you like, and mix and match several dishes.
Do not expect a perfect match to your
requirements as nobody is so ideal that
he/she can be called as a perfect match.
Avoid expecting a success on the first
trial. Always be open on your options. Do
not limit your date to one. A wider range sampling can
result in a
better selection. This is not a question of
faithfulness as this selection process if
communicated well between both parties will
give most efficient result that benefits
everyone. It is only true that in life there
are several people that can be suitable for
you, but there is only one that is most
suitable and that person is going to be your
life partner. What it takes is a clear
mutual understanding of each other's
intention and be transparent in our action.
That means they know and accept the fact
that there are other person under your
consideration.
One other important factor is not to expect
other person to find you. Make the
first contact. Some people are too shy or
ego that they are not willing to make the
first move. You have to find and not to be
found. The more candidate that you contact
the higher your chance of meeting your
preferred one.
Be prepared to meet all kind of
personalities. Put aside your prejudice and
give the other person as well as yourself a
chance to discover each other. A good
partner is the one that can complement your
character.
When selecting a date you should not limit
your choice based on race, geographical
location or even status. This expansion of
criteria will open up for new opportunity in
meeting new sets of people. You may even
surprise yourself when you found that you
can actually benefit from this openness.
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