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I am still in search of my right man and matchmaking websites has been one of my source of getting my contacts hence candidates. I had met quite a number of different man with all sorts of character. One that I will not forget is a guy who claims to be a very highly qualified professional with double degrees and several PhDs.

The guy had a funny speaking tone on the phone and likes to dominate the conversation. He gets angry at my jokes and laugh out loud for no reason! I thought maybe that explains his too highly intelligent brain. I thought, he maybe strange, rare but belongs to special species. I gave myself a try and wanted to meet him eye to eye. Who knows if he was just testing me and happen to be the person I have been waiting for.

Before the date, as a precautionary, I left his number to my friend. In case the worst happen there'll be people who know my whereabouts and who to look for. He asked what dress to wear, open up several options on expensive places to dine, which than, I chose one.

He waited in his car in front of my office. After we greet each other he started staring at me. That was making me uneasy and suddenly I formed an opinion that he is not the "one". However, it was still to early to judge a person so I followed him for the dinner. It was not a high class place but a small table at a food-stall near one corner at the road end. He piled up several chairs before he sat down which according to him he will only sit at a higher level than other people.
I asked further why, which he confidently say it is because he is more special than others. I did not really know whether I had met a psychopathic person or an arrogant one but I know I can't wait for the date to be over.The date finally over and I was thankful that I got home safely so that I can continue to look for my Mr Right.
 

Posted on 03/02/2008 by Ana

I was married for 10 years and suddenly an event occurred and I became a widower with four kids. It's difficult for a guy to manage a family alone. I decided to find a new life partner but too busy with work and do not have enough time to socialize.

I used to be sceptical about match making websites, but after reading several articles, I decided to give it a try. At first I joined as a free member. After a week of searching, I found out I couldn't contact other members. Then, I joined as a paid member at two match making websites. Soon after, I get to contact many members and had several candidates.

To make this story short, three months later, I finally got married and my life is back to normal. The most interesting part is, my wife is not a members of those websites. I met my wife from a recommendation from one of the candidate who think that her friend (my wife) was suitable for me. It sure does.

Posted on 29/01/2008 by Webmasters

My experience with matrimonial website was rather tragic. I am a single woman in late 30s. I met my ex-foreign boyfriend (an English man from UK) who is in early 40s.

He was so romantic and sound very real. We correspond via emails and sometime via phone. In the 3rd month of our relationship he planned to meet me and my family in my home country. Of course I felt so excited with his plan.

However 2 weeks before his visit he suddenly rang me up to inform that his brother in law involved in car accident and passed away in Germany. His nephew who studied in Malaysia needed some fund urgently to buy his air ticket. (This is where the catch is!!).

I am lucky to have such a trustworthy friend whom I share every bit of my love story. She made me realize that this is merely a scam and advised me to ignore this so-called decent culprit.

The morale of my story is we must put extra cautions when dealing with total stranger. Do not invest in feeling before we get second opinion from our relative or friend. An intelligent culprit can always create thousand stories and innocent people can easily be trapped by the sweet talks.

Be honest and patient in our pursuit of true love. Always seek guidance from Allah Al-Mighty.


Sincerely yours
 

Posted on 29/01/2008 by cda

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